The Sweet Feeling of Accomplishment: From Barista To Manager
I never pictured myself managing a retail store in Belleville, Ontario, but I see now how hard work in former jobs built determination and a strive for excellence in the business world.
My work ethic was challenged when I moved to Montreal, Quebec for a couple of years and started working at a Second Cup. For one, I never thought I would be working at a coffee shop coming right out of University. I mean, I had a great education but it didn’t appear to get me far. However, maybe it did in hindsight in developing in me a work ethic that would take me to a career I never dreamed possible.
Being a Barista was anything but easy or glamorous despite the romanticized idea of it. I worked late nights, did all the dirty work and got yelled at by my managers a lot for not being able to speak French or for raising concerns they didn’t think were valid. I worked like this for a good 5 months. That’s five months of me coming home, crying and talking myself back into going to work. I dreaded it, but knew that my options were limited so I kept on going.
My managers started asked my colleagues how I worked in their absence and many of them responded that I was “hard working” and would often have to tell me I was ok to leave work and go home.
As turnover rates increased, I was entrusted with keys and opening the café. It took me a bit to get the hang of it, but within a month or less I was opening the café on my own and running it until my manager came in at 7am. I felt such a sense of accomplishment being able to run a business on my own for a short period of time. It was actually somewhat rewarding coming in, putting on some nice background music, placing the pastries all nicely and making sure everything was stocked, neat and tidy for the morning rush.
I also worked hard on perfecting the little bit of French I knew and developing an accent (I would practice while opening the café in talking to myself or try and speak French as much as I could while in public). I wanted to be able to engage in a small conversation with customers while making their lattes. Though I had one case where I asked the customer what size drink they wanted (Quelle format?) and she snapped at me saying I used the improper word for size and I should have said “Quelle grandeur?” or “Quelle taille?” and started talking about Bill 101, thankfully my manager stepped in to defend me.
In spite of the language barrier, I continued working at Second Cup. Early mornings, jazz music, coffee stained hands and spilled milk were the little things marking my life at the time.
When I gave my resignation, the managers were saddened (which is not an emotion they showed often) and took me out for a nice meal in Old Montreal. I felt my hard work was appreciated for once. It made me feel really good.
Coming back home I thought was going to be hard. I had this idea that I was going to have to spend a year or more working at the bottom to get to the top again, but that wasn’t the case. With the work ethic I developed in Montreal (taking shifts when people called in sick, doing the dirty work) climbing the corporate ladder was easy. Within 2 months of being hired on I was promoted to a key holder and within another month Assistant Manager.
Since then I have switched companies and have enjoyed learning management skills along the way. From marketing strategies, to conducting interviews, to window displays, my hard work over these past 4 years has proven to me that I can do many things I never thought possible.
It gives me hope that if I can accomplish these two grand things, I can achieve anything I put hard work and determination to. Whether it be paying off my student loans, furthering my education, buying a home or saving for retirement, I know I can do these things if I work hard at developing a plan and stick to it.
This week’s article round-up.
So I’ve been reading about running again. It didn’t occur to me how weird that was until I was making this list. I’m not currently running so maybe I’m just living in LaLaLand pretending that it will soon be warm enough to run again. Or maybe I’m just trying to get knowledge for when it is warm. In any case, it’s not entirely useful info at the moment, but that’s OK.
Running:
- How can I get over feeling self-conscious about running? I think every new runner thinks about this.
- Myths of Running: Barefoot and otherwise. New York Times.
- “You’re crazy.” Boston Globe. A runner runs a marathon in Vibram 5 fingers and fractures his foot.
- Top Excuses Not to Run and How to Beat them.
Getting Better At Life:
- Rebounding from Setbacks: A Step-by-Step Guide. He gives 12 tips on how to get over failure/set-backs and move on.
- The Most Successful Techniques for Rising Early (Zenhabits). The man’s a genius.
- Going Paperless: A Closer Look at How I Organize My Notes In Evernote. (Nerd alert!)
- Writing Memoir: What I Learned in 2012
Resolutions: One month check-up
Guys, I have good things to report! In case you forgot, here’s a quick recap on my New Year’s Resolutions:
- Read a book every two weeks.
- Continue getting exercise 3x a week until I can start running again.
- Start Sewing/Cross-stitching.
That’s on top of other regular things that I’ve been trying to keep up with like having a morning routine. So how’s it going? Pretty good on the Resolutions front.
I’ve got reading down pat into a habitual thing (I think?). I read on the metro to and from work and for 30 minutes a day (which I track on my Lift app). That alone usually means I can get through a book in faster than 2 weeks, but I’m still not planning on changing my resolution. I’d like to give some margin for regular life to be able to happen.
I’ve been exercising 3x a week, and this week I’m going to start playing with adding swimming once a week as some of that exercise.
Sewing/Cross-stitching has totally not happened at all yet. I’m OK with that as I’m still figuring out the first two and getting back into the habit of my morning routine, which is going quite well! I’ve been getting up at 6:45 the last two weeks. It’s changing my body rhythms a bit again. I need coffee at 10AM instead of 1PM now, and I’m quite tired by 9PM. I’ve also been trying to write regularly on top of all that. This means I’m watching a lot less TV, but I still have time for a short episode of something.
The Downside
Though my Resolutions are going well, there are other things in my life that have been pushed to the back-burner to make room for more reading and exercise. Things like grocery shopping, laundry and house cleaning. These things don’t really even take place at the same time of day but they are definitely suffering. I think February will need to be about doing ALL! the things well together.
My First Guest Post Series
One of the main reasons I started this blog was to show how if this lazy girl can get things done and accomplish her goals, than anyone can. Already I’m a bit surprised by some of the feedback I’m getting where people sound like they’re elevating me for some of the things I’ve been able to accomplish like writing a novel in a month or starting to get up at 6:45 every morning (which I have gotten back in the habit of since this post!). This is totally crazy. If I can do these things, so can you.
Which is why I want to do a series of guest posts featuring how YOU and other regular people (ie: not Leo Babauta) have gone about accomplishing difficult or seemingly wild things may it be running your first 5 or 10K, doing a photography/poetry exhibit for your 26th birthday (ahem, youknowwhoyouare), taking a trip somewhere that cost you something other than just money, starting your own business, getting out of debt. I’m basically just making things up here (except that one) to give you ideas.
What is an example in your life that required determination and hard work to accomplish? (or)
What is something that you are so glad you took risks to do?
What did you learn from it?
How are you a better person now?
How to submit a guest post
Send me an email with the subject “Guest Post” (email link is on the side). Answer these questions, attach or link to a picture you’d like me to post with your article. Share your blog address/twitter handle or whatever way you are OK with people contacting you. I reserve the right to edit the post, but I will run that by you first if necessary. Please keep it to around 500 words. I can’t guarantee every submission will be published.
How do I train on a budget?
One of the thing that interests me currently is how to train for a run on a budget. Like a lot of things in life we can tend to think that we can’t do them if we don’t have money. How do you train to run a spring race during the winter if you don’t have the money for a gym membership? Or if you don’t have the cash to drop on YakTrax or all the other gear that will help you run safely outside? Rather than being discouraged from starting right from the get-go, I want to look into how to do it on the really cheap. Here’s what I’ve found.
Living room workouts
Here are a few things you can do in your living room that get your heart rate up and give you that cardio workout you’re looking for. FitnessBlender has some videos on YouTube including this one that is a 17 minute cardio workout. Like they say in the YT comments, there’s no music so that they can keep the videos free, so turn this on and your favourite dance song and go for it. There are lots of other cardio options that you can find online if you’re looking for variety. This series from Shape.com gives you a warm-up of stretches, a bunch of cardio, and then a warm-down of stretches.
The local/municipal pool
If you’re in a city, you probably have a pool that has free swim hours for residents (click here for Montreal). I’m lucky to have one within a 5 minute walk of my house. You can swim laps or pool run (I’ve just learned about this). The best thing is, the worse you are as a swimmer, the better a workout it is for you! So go find out the hours for your local adult swim and get a work out.
Use the local skating rinks
I’m planning on lacing up my skates to get some regular ice time. There are plenty of outdoor skating rinks in Montreal that are free. I don’t think it should be a problem finding a time when no kids are playing shinny. Well, I’ll get back to you on that one. Anyways, you can try skating laps and build your stamina that way. The great thing about skating is that it’s low impact (though not as low as pool running, I imagine) so it should be easier on your legs/knees than running.
Do you have other ideas of how to stay fit for free during the winter? Share them in the comments here.